Friends

Friends are really important in our life. Friends are our chosen family. The person we choose for ourselves, for us... they can make us or completely break us. But the thing is there are people in our life who said that becoming someone's friends in not in our hands, when we met someone they will be our friend. But this is not the thing. Every we meet in our daily life can not be our friend. We shouldn't allow everyone to be our friends. Friends should be of our level spiritually and mentally. We should have some certainty in our dealings.. we should choose wisely either that person is worth of being a friend. 

“True friendship comes when the silence between two people is comfortable.”
– David Tyson

We all are not lucky enough that we all can have really got friends, friends with good temperaments, good things, good thinking. We all have different friends. But our life's first friend shouldn't be forgotten. Everyone's first ever friend can be a some stranger, their own sibling, their pet, a mirror, or might be a neighbor. I have a friend whose first ever friend was his brother- and that's a quite interesting thing. It's good when your own sibling is your friend but it can be a lil bit awkward, at least for me. Because for me siblings are  siblings, they can't be mine friend. And my friends are friends they can't be sibling or anything else. Yeah I know this might be a strange thing for few of them. For me friends are the creature that are with me even if my own family leaves me. Yeah there are some situations that can not be discussed with our family but friends have their solutions. There are some good friends, who empower us, who force us to be a good person. But yeah there are some bad friends. Bad friends doesn't mean that they are really mean or selfish or snake type things. But these people don't inspire us to do something extraordinary. They are happy with their lifestyle, living and they comprises for the things like an average job and this or that. 

Friends are the mates whom to we share laughs, tears, sorrow, our abilities, our flaws, even our evil intentions. So choose your friends wisely. Always remember everyone can not be your friend. A person is known for his company, his friends. Your outcome, your progress, your intensions towards things, your thinking pattern heavily depend on your input that mainly include your friends, family etc.